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Thank you, my darling dear ((pseudo)) sister!

Word on the street is that she’s opening an etsy store soon.  I’ll keep you all informed.

Do check out her blog because it’s fucking awesome.  Go soon.  Go soon because she likes to move around a lot.  It’s brimming with nice photos, great writing, and (AND) she makes stuff.  Really, really cool stuff.

She’s a girl after my own heart…and that’s probably why I appointed her as my ((pseudo)) sister.

Yeah.  I’m like that.

I know I don’t usually talk about my innermost thoughts and feelings in this space, but I really need to get these words in front of me and out of my head. Right now, I’m feeling a bit “anti-fashion.” I’m over the influx of what’s supposed to be new/hot/trendy. I’m over the “chic-er than thou” hierarchy that exists within the industry. I’m tired of being dictated to and directed and of having Alexa Chung/Erin Wasson/(insert your favorite model here) shoved down my throat. But more than anything else, I’m completely over stuffing my closet to the gills with things that, at the time, I just HAD to HAVE.

CONFESSION: at present, I’m considering writing down every single possession of mine and reducing it by half. I’m taking a very sideways look at the things I like and really reevaluating my level of like.  In theory, I’m vowing to ditch everything that I don’t absolutely love.  In fact, I love too damn much and my closet will probably still be stuffed to the gills.  Ugh. Note to self: be more cut-throat.

Despite this feeling, I realize that I am still very much a consumer.  I’m a mixture of a self-loathing and self-celebrating consumer (depending on the purchase, of course), but indeed a consumer.  Although I’d rather cater to the minimalistic, ascetic side of my personality and dedicate myself to eliminating debt/establishing an emergency fund/being fiscally responsible and all that shit, lately, I’ve been spending more money.  Yeah.  Fuck this recession.

On this point, I will give myself a bit of credit.  I’ve managed to (mostly) avoid the trap of fast fashion and spending money on things that I know I’m not going to love for more than a few months.  In trade, I’ve spent money on items that I think are absolutely amazing and that I’ll get some serious wear out of (see the Herman Munster wedges of amazingness that made it into 3 of the last 4 posts).  Sure, those Draped Harem Pants from Twelve by Twelve may look cute, but I’m sure the Pleasure Principle dress that I narrowly managed to score on Shoes and Your Mom will give me exponentially more pleasure in the long run.  Does this mean I’ve finally “grown up” stylistically? That I’ve learned that an investment piece is better than a cheap fix?  Probably not.  I’m just tired of throwing my money away on shit that is “supposed” to be cool.  The same day I got those Acne shoes, I also picked up that navy blazer from the Salvation Army for $6.  Just saying.

CONFESSION: after paying off all of my credit card debt and not charging anything for 5 months, I managed to rack up a full month’s rent in one day. ONE.DAY. I probably could have waited and paid cash, but delayed gratification is SO not my style. Then again, neither is about 90% of what I see in stores/magazines/the blogosphere. I’m not knocking anyone mind you; my perspective has just shifted a bit. I still <3 all of my blogger buddies like play cousins and follow more than a fair share of blogs in general.

Speaking of, I don’t really know what I’m doing with the blog anymore.  When I think back on why I started it in the first place (honestly, it was because I was tired of dressing like a boy in junior high school and was in the middle of a MAJOR (and in hindsight, highly unnecessary) spending binge), I think I’ve accomplished my initial goal.  I’ve also happened upon a couple of very fun side hustles and met some very cool people in the process.  Now, I’m wondering what direction to go in.  If you haven’t already noticed,  I’m not going to be up on (insert city) Fashion Week, posting Polyvores of the outfits I wish I could wear to places I’m not going, or giving you incredibly photographed outfits against serene landscapes.  I live in Koreatown…in Los Angeles…let’s be realistic.  What you’ll probably get is whatever is in my head space…”anti-fashion” related or not.  Sure, my own sense of vanity will keep me doing my semi-regular outfit posts because…well, because I’m vain like that, but the other content is going to be a complete toss up.  This should be interesting; do stick around.

First up, my buddy (overshooting, but I’ve seen him enough times that I couldn’t call him a random dude) Tiron just dropped this video for “Throwing My Money” off of his mixtape Ketchup.  I think it sums up my feelings quite well…

Shoes, shoes, shoes, shoes…shoes I do adore…

Video posting aside, I guess the crux of this post is that I’m finally comfortable with taking WendyB’s advice and wearing what I want without putting much stock in any outside influence.  YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY.

Now if I could only get a plan together to re-rid myself of revolving debt…

What’s presently rocking my world:

This blog:

She’s just dope.  Others agree.  Follow her.  You won’t be disappointed.  In fact, I believe I just doubled the effectiveness of my existing wardrobe just by going through her post archive.  I’m telling you; she’s dope.

These shoes:

My love for the Acne Atacoma is unyielding.  I don’t think I want to wear any other shoes.  At least not for now.  I have to get the cost-per-wear down to a respectable level.

This phone:

I got this physical display of awesomeness at the Melrose Trading Post yesterday.  What are the chances of running into a first and last time seller who happens to refurbish rotary phones?  In this shade of blue?  Very slim, my friends.  Very, very slim.

What are you digging in your respective worlds? Anything new/cool/share-worthy?  Hit me with it.

Talonalia Sparrow Skull Necklace

It’s the first in a series and very, very cool.  Solid brass casting with a nice weight to it and looks great layered with…everything else in the store.  See how convenient I make things for you guys!

Starting Monday, get it here.  Very limited quantity available (for now).

Being the shining example of will-power that I am, I naturally got the damn shoes.  American Rag has one more pair in a size 38.  Just saying.

I think I’ve gotten more compliments from guys than girls on these shoes.  SWEET.

T minus 15 hours before I make these mine…or not…

Pressure is on…

Vintage Bracelet + Hawk Talon

In store Monday.  If you have an eye for this particular bracelet, I suggest you act quickly on Monday.  There is only one.  ONLY.ONE.

Available here.

AA Raglan
Three Layer Cake

My last chance to wear it before it ships out tomorrow.  I’ll miss it.  Luckily, there are (technically) three more to keep me company.  One has yet to be listed (aiming for tomorrow!), one other is on “tour,” and the third is available in the store.

Wearing:
Kill City Jacket (he knows about it now… =D)
FOTL Tee
F21 Jeans

I don’t watch the VMA’s.  If anything of note happens, I’ll usually google the videos the next day…or week…or something.  Exposing my brain matter to the fuckery that presents itself on the show every year is really bad for my health.

I’m sure you all saw it, but I’m reposting Madonna’s opening speech/MJ eulogy.  In my humble opinion, the folks over at EBT BET need to take notes on how a tribute is supposed to be done and commit Japanese ritual suicide as advised by Huey in “Hunger Strike” (I highly recommend this episode.  HIGHLY).  I hate that network.  Apparently people who work(ed) on the inside have also reached the conclusion that it’s beyond saving, but I digress.

Side note: is anyone else waiting earnestly for the next season of the Boondocks?  AARON, HURRY THE HELL UP!!

This, of course, was followed by a montage of videos and what must have been the former cast of dancers from the “This Is It” tour.  If it is, I’m glad to see them on stage.  And JANET!  Shit.  I was just happy to see her performing again.  There was a lot of raw emotion  up there.  Loved it.

If anyone asks, Lady Gaga is so beyond comprehension that I can’t even rate her on a scale that is used for normal performers.

And Kanye knows how to jack up buzz/press/ratings/mass hysteria/the use of the n-word on Twitter/his blog traffic.  Contrary to popular belief, he’s actually one of the nicest guys you’d want to meet.   =D

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In other news, I’m sending a load of shoes over to Shoes and Your Mom.  I’m cleaning out my closet and assembling my “army of yes.”  This is going to be fun.

I’ll also be attempting a version of this Pleasure Principle dress that I missed out on months ago.  It’s strange how I ogle/obsess over/want stuff that is painfully unattainable because of price or the fact that it’s out of stock.  Yay for projects.

Find your proper bra size – I watched the video, did what the bra lady told me, and promptly took a trip to VS.  I’m (they’re) much happier now.

The third to last post of the recently deceased Nikki of Indigo Trail of my Thoughts.  It’s wonderfully motivating and could change lives.  Travel well, Nikki.

Talonalia Giveaway over at The Clothes Horse.  Win an owl talon!!  You know you want it.

Wendy B’s 9/11 post…which isn’t really a post as much as it is links to other posts, but you should really follow the links to the other posts that are linked within the posts that she links from this particular post.  It’s a very good read.  Trust me.

Liberian Girl makep tutorial.  Because Da Lipstick Bandit gets it in!

I WANT THIS.  Ok, replace “want” with “got on a whim because I reasoned that I could just sell half of my shoe collection/closet to replace the money because this jacket is just that fucking awesome and I’ll be wearing it for a very, very, VERY long time. ”  Don’t tell dudeguy.  He doesn’t know I already have it.  And apparently, Wasteland is selling this jacket for less than the Kill City site is.  Someone join me in this gross indulgence!!!

I started a TUMBLR.  Don’t really know why either.

The most satisfying (and comfortable) YSL Tribtoo knock is at Aldo.  It’s true.

I wouldn’t mind having these either.  Also from Aldo.

No, there isn’t.  That’s it for now.  No NYFW updates.  You guys know I don’t do that ish.